QUESTION: May a Jewish employee participate in company parties that
are held in celebration of non-Jewish holidays?
DISCUSSION: It depends on the type of party the company is having.
Many times, a company's holiday party has nothing to do with the
celebration of the holiday; rather it is an employee appreciation party
that happens to take place during the holiday season. There is no halachic
objection to attending such a party. But if the intention of the party is
to celebrate the actual non-Jewish holiday, it would be forbidden for a
Jew to attend.
However, even if the party is not intended to celebrate a non-Jewish
holiday, non-Jewish office parties are hardly the place for an observant
Jew to be. The mode of dress, the type of language and the loose behavior
at such affairs is completely alien and contrary to everything that
Yiddishkeit stands for. It is clear, therefore, that if for business
reasons one must attend such a party, he or she must do so only when there
is no other choice, and even then, he or she must come and go as quickly
as possible. Lingering in such an environment can lead to serious
transgression of many Torah laws.
QUESTION: Is there a source for the custom of women refraining from
doing housework while the Chanukah candles are burning?
DISCUSSION: This custom is cited in Shulchan Aruch and dates back
at least to the days of the Rishonim. Women have always felt a special
affinity for the Yom Tov of Chanukah since a woman - Yehudis, the daughter
of Yochanan Kohen Gadol - played a prominent role in the defeat of the
Greeks. In addition, Jewish women suffered from the Greeks more than the
Jewish men did.(1) There are two basic reasons why women chose to refrain
from work as an expression of their special observance of Chanukah:(2)
* To serve as a reminder that it is forbidden to "benefit" from the
Chanukah candles. Refraining from work when the candles are burning
reinforces the idea that the Chanukah candles are not to be used for any
other purpose but as a reminder of the great miracle that took place.(3)
* In order to highlight the fact that Chanukah is indeed a Yom Tov.
Therefore, women refrained from doing "work" - as they refrain on Yom Tov -
so long as the candles are burning.(4)
QUESTION: What type of housework is included in this custom?
DISCUSSION: There are various opinions as to what "work" means vis-
a-vis this custom. Most communities prohibit "work" that would be
forbidden on Chol ha-Moed, such as doing laundry or sewing, while cooking,
baking and light housework would be permitted.(5) But in some
communities, "work" includes all work, including cooking and baking.(6)
The poskim also debate the amount of time that women customarily refrain
from doing housework. Most poskim hold that the custom applies only to the
minimum length of time that the candles must burn,(7) which is
approximately one half hour after the stars appear. Others, however,
maintain that the custom to refrain from work lasts as long as candles are
burning anywhere in the community, which may be as late as midnight.(8)
Most communities follow the first view.(9)
QUESTION: Is it permitted to recite the blessings over Chanukah
candles that are kindled outside one's home, e.g., at a Chanukah party in
school, in a public hall or at a public display?
DISCUSSION: Several contemporary poskim address this issue and the
consensus is that it is not permitted. They explain that the mitzvah of
lighting Chanukah candles was instituted specifically to be performed in
one's home or in a place where one is residing temporarily. Reciting the
blessings over candles lit outside of one's home may be a berachah
The only exception to this rule is when candles are lit in shul between
Minchah and Ma'ariv on Chanukah. Thus it may be argued that any public
lighting is similar to the lighting in shul. But for several reasons the
poskim strongly reject this argument and recommend that one avoid reciting
the blessings in any setting other than in one's home (or temporary
dwelling) or in shul.(11)
QUESTION: When is the appropriate time to light Chanukah candles
and how long should they burn?
DISCUSSION: Concerning the proper times for lighting, there are
several views in the poskim which are reflected in various customs. Those
who have a family tradition should uphold it, but those who do not have a
specific custom should light at the time that recognized Gedolei Yisrael
lit, which is about twenty minutes after sunset.(12) Although in Eretz
Yisrael many people light immediately after sunset, outside Eretz Yisrael
it is yet daylight for a while and too early to kindle the lights.
There should be enough oil, however, for the candles to burn until one
half hour after tzeis ha-kochavim.(13) There are various ways and a number
of opinions of calculating tzeis ha-kochavim, ranging from twenty minutes
(in Eretz Yisrael) to seventy-two minutes past sunset. In order to fulfill
the mitzvah according to all views, there should be enough oil to burn for
about eighty to eighty-five minutes.
On erev Shabbos, Chanukah candles are lit right before lighting Shabbos
candles, which is about twenty minutes before sunset. In order to fulfill
the mitzvah according to all views, there should be enough oil to burn for
at least two hours.(14)
QUESTION: How important is it to daven Minchah before lighting
Chanukah candles on erev Shabbos Chanukah?
DISCUSSION: If possible, one should daven Minchah on Friday before
lighting Chanukah candles.(15) There are two reasons for this: 1) The
afternoon Tamid sacrifice, which corresponds to our Minchah service, was
always brought before the lighting of the Menorah in the Beis ha-Mikdash;
(16) 2) Davening Minchah after lighting Chanukah candles appears
contradictory, since Minchah "belongs" to Friday, while the Chanukah
candles "belong" to Shabbos.(17)
However, if no early minyan is available, then it is better to light first
and daven with a minyan afterwards.(18) Working people who are unable to
daven Minchah before lighting the menorah because that would cut their
short Friday even shorter, should light candles first and then daven
Minchah in shul with a minyan.
QUESTION: Is it permitted to give a gift to a non-Jewish employee,
colleague, etc., during the non-Jewish holiday season?
DISCUSSION: As explained earlier, giving a gift to an employee or
to a person who renders a service is merely an expression of gratitude, a
form of payment for past or future service which it is not considered a
celebration of avodah zarah and is permitted. It is proper, however, that
no specific mention be made that the gift is in honor of the non-Jewish
holiday,(19) and that the gift be given a day or two before or after the
holiday rather than on the holiday itself.(20)
1 Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 139:3.
2 Some men also have the custom to refrain from doing work during this
time; Mishnah Berurah 670:3.
3 Beiur ha-Gra, O.C. 670:1.
4 Levush, O.C. 670, quoted by Kaf ha-Chayim 670:6.
5 Harav M. Feinstein (Moadei Yeshurun, pg. 8; Halachos of Chanukah, pg.
4); Harav Y. Kamenetsky (Emes l'Yaakov, O.C. 670, note 584); Shraga ha-
6 This is the custom in Yerushalayim; Harav Y.Y. Fisher, quoted in Rivevos
7 Mishnah Berurah 670:4.
8 Magen Avraham 670:2, quoted by Be'er Heitev 2 and Siddur Ya'avetz.
9 Sha'ar ha-Tziyun 670:7; Kaf ha-Chayim 670:8. See Aruch ha-Shulchan
670:8, who writes that in his community, women refrained from work only at
the time that the candles were being lit.
10 Minchas Yitzchak 6:65; Harav S.Z. Auerbach (quoted in Az Nidberu 6:75);
Shevet ha-Levi 4:65; Teshuvos v'Hanhagos 1:398.
11 There are several distinctions between lighting in shul and any other
public lighting. Two of the more significant are: 1) The purpose of
lighting in shul was to remind us of the lighting of the Menorah in the
Beis ha-Mikdash, and only lighting in shul, a mikdash me'at, is similar;
2) Lighting in shul was instituted for the sake of guests who had nowhere
to sleep, whereas lighting Chanukah candles in any other public venue
would not address this concern.
12 Harav Y. Kamenetsky (Emes l'Yaakov, O.C. 672, note 586). See also
Teshuvos v'Hanhagos 2:334 and Az Nidberu 7:70. See Igros Moshe, O.C. 4:101-
6, who writes that the appropriate time is ten minutes after sunset, but
Harav Feinstein himself used to light thirteen to eighteen minutes after
sunset (Halachos of Chanukah, pg. 20). Harav A. Kotler lit twenty-five to
thirty minutes after sunset (ibid.)
13 See Igros Moshe, O.C. 4:101-6.
14 See Beiur Halachah 672:1. The breakdown is as follows: Twenty minutes
before sunset, seventy-two minutes until the stars appear, and an
additional half hour for the candles to burn after tzeis ha-kochavim.