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(We left off discussing a person's excess involvement in the
physical dimension of the world which will be contrasted with
"excess" involvement in the spiritual dimensions of the world.)
The proper order for a person's relationship with the
physical world is to first acquire possessions and then to build
a home. (See Rambam Ch. 5, Deioth, Halacha 11) For this reason
the lesson on possessions is followed with a lesson about the
foundation of the home, his wife. We are taught that a surplus
of wives causes an increase in "keshafim" (witchcraft). The
power of "kishuf" is more developed and prevalent among women due
to their greater connection to the tangible and physical
dimensions of world, as well as to their more developed sense of
imagination, both of which are needed to activate the power of
"kishuf."
(It is difficult for us today to know exactly what the power
of "kishuf" is, but it was clearly a real force. There is a
prohibition in the Torah of being involved in it, in Shemoth
22:17; and there is discussion about it in Sanhedrin 67a-b. From
the Gemara and commentaries, it seems that kishuf relates to the
interference with the desired relationship between the forces of
the upper world and their proper influence on the physical world,
enabling the material world to function with a dimension of
independence from the upper world. It is for this reason that
for "kishuf" to work, the person doing it must be rooted on the
earth, as is implied in Rashi in Sanhedrin (44b, "d'bayah").
(Just as the Maharal made clear in the previous lessons, a
"surplus of wives" is not referring to a literal count of a
person's actual wives, but rather a representative lesson about a
man's relationship to his wife (or in the time of the Torah and
Talmud, to his wives). A person who shows a predilection for
many women ("marbeh") seems to be responding to the collective
"mystique" of Womankind, rather than to the unique individuality
of a woman with whom he can create a true partnership of
accomplishment. The nature of womankind is to be more connected
to and rooted in nature and the physical world. Some
manifestations of this would be their tendency towards the
practical rather than the theoretical; their connection of their
bodies to the rhythms of time and forces of life.
(The woman's nature and role, reflecting the ideal state of
"chomer," is directed towards being the "implementer" of the
potential ideal in the "real" world. It is the male role to
provide the theoretical framework represented by the "tzurah,"
for that ideal. Please refer to our extended discussions on this
in Ch. 1, Mishna 5.
("Kishuf" is the strengthening of the power of "chomer," the
material dimension of creation, to resist the implementation of
the ideal dimension of creation. Even though a person's wives
may be far removed from performing any kind of "kishuf," pursuing
a surplus of wives is departing from and weakening the role with
which he is charged, being drawn to the very different female
role. This upsets the very delicate balance necessary to ensure
the proper connection between the upper and lower worlds in order
that the desired ideals are implemented in the material world.
(Concepts in Chazal that relate to gender differences have
become difficult to discuss in these "politically correct" times.
Yet there is much in the writings and research of contemporary
secular educators, psychologists and psychiatrists which
validates the Torah view. (Some of the work of Dr. John Gray in
his "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" series is an
example.) Unfortunately, discussions of this topic on its merits
are usually difficult these days. The problem frequently is not
an educated refutation of the principles, but resistance due to
the potential for abuse that are implied in many of these
principles. If the principles are misused or abused in a
chauvinistic way, that should not lead us to deny the principles,
which are rooted in our Divine Torah. Rather we must fight the
specific instances of abuse or misuse, without compromising on a
correct understanding of how G-d made the male and the female,
and the different roles they play in bringing the world to its
desired perfection.)
After discussing the foundation of a man's home, the Tanna
discusses the excess in other dimensions of the home. The
maidservant represents one works in the home, while the slave
represents one who works outside the home, in the fields.
Maidservants are descendants of Cham (the son of Noach who was
cursed for his improper behavior towards his father), and are
considered steeped in promiscuity as a continuation of their
ancestor. Even if the specific maidservants owned by the person
are themselves of the highest moral standards, the tendency of
the person to an excess of maidservants is indicative of his own
disposition and lack of sensitivity towards promiscuity.
Slaves are associated with thievery due to a presumed lack
of honesty and integrity. (While this sounds a little
"politically incorrect," the explanation provided by the Maharal
may be relevant to many of us in our professional lives.) The
possible difficulty of properly performing the tasks assigned to
him leads a slave to compromise on the honesty of how he
discharges those responsibilities, resulting in his indirect
stealing (from his owner, through a less than thorough
performance of his tasks) or more directly stealing from others
in order to make his work easier. This was the behavior of the
shepherds of Lot, who allowed the sheep to graze in other
people's fields, in contrast to the shepherd's of Avraham, who
took the sheep to the desert where they would graze on ownerless
land. (See Breishith 13:7 and Rashi ibid, as well as Shemoth 3:1
where it is taught that Moshe behaved in a similar fashion.)
Due to their natural dispositions, maidservants who deviate
from proper behavior are led to promiscuity, while slaves who
deviate from proper behavior are led to thievery. Grasping this
requires a very deep understanding of the workings of the world.
(As we have written before, this language of the Maharal
indicates a deeper insight that borders on the Kabbalistic.)
In summary, the five things mentioned in the first part of
the Mishna relate to the physical dimensions of existence, and
any excess in this dimension results in increased need and
deficiency, and ultimate deterioration.
The class is taught by Rabbi Shaya Karlinsky,
Dean of Darche Noam Institutions, Yeshivat
Darche Noam/Shapell's and Midreshet Rachel for Women.
Chapter 2: Mishna 8: Part 2
He (Hillel) used to say: A surplus of meat causes
an increase in worms. A surplus of possessions
causes an increase in worry. A surplus of wives
causes an increase in "keshafim" (witchcraft). A
surplus of maidservants causes an increase in
promiscuity. A surplus of slaves causes an
increase in thievery. A surplus of Torah causes an
increase in life. A surplus of "yeshiva" (sitting
together with peers studying Torah) increases
wisdom. A surplus of "eitzah" (seeking advice and
insights from more experienced people) increases
understanding. A surplus of charity increases
peace. One who acquires a good name acquires it
for himself; one who acquires words of Torah for
himself has acquired the World to Come for himself.