Chapter 3: Mishna 3: Part 1
Rebbe Chanania ben Tradyon says: Two people who are sitting
together, and no words of Torah are exchanged between them, are considered
to be in a session of scoffers, as it is says: "And in a session of scoffers
he did not sit" (Tehillim 1:1). But two people who are sitting together and
there are words of Torah between them, the Divine Presence resides between
them, as it says "Then those who fear G-d spoke to each other, and G-d
listened and He heard, and a book of remembrance was written before Him, for
those who fear G-d and who contemplate His Name" (Malachi 3:16). I only know
[from this verse] about two people. What is the source that even an
individual person who sits and is involved in Torah, has G-d determine for
him a reward? For it is written "Let him sit in solitude and be still, for
he has taken it upon himself."
(There are two versions in the text about the reward for one who sits and is
involved in Torah. We have used the version upon which the Maharal
comments, even though in both "Derech Chaim" texts that I have, an
alternative version is used in the text of the Mishna.)
The first difficulty with this Mishna is that the proof text "..in a session
of scoffers he did not sit" mentions nothing about the absence of
involvement in Torah. Why shouldn't the verse be interpreted in a
straightforward way, discussing a person who is involved in mockery and
scorning?!
The next difficulty is the progression of the Mishna. It should first
discuss the people who are involved in Torah study, rather than opening with
those whose interaction is not with Torah!
Another difficulty is the proof text used for the source that G-d determines
reward for the single person who sits and is involved in Torah study.
Nowhere is it mentioned in the verse that the individual is involved in
Torah study, and no mention is made of setting a reward!
(As we study the Maharal's questions, we should remember that that if we
read the proof text and find ourselves nodding in approval at the wonderful
source the Rabbis found to validate their thesis, we are probably fooling
ourselves. And if we read it and thought "Well, this proof doesn't really
make sense, but our ability to understand is so limited that I shouldn't
expect it to make sense to me," then we are excusing ourselves from striving
to understand what is accessible, if we are willing to work hard at
understanding it.)
Finally, the Mishna first uses the phrase "... and there are no WORDS of
Torah ("divrei Torah") between them..." while later the individual person is
said to be "involved in Torah." When discussing two people it should have
also used the phrase "and they aren't involved in Torah" or for the
individual it should have also said "words of Torah."
(Once again, we see how the Maharal takes a Mishna which sounds so
inspiring, and we would understand almost "romantically," and subjects it to
the most critical analysis. The thesis demands a proof-text, and the proof
text doesn't seem to "deliver the goods"! And the order of the Mishna isn't
what we expected. And the deviations in language need to be accounted for.
It sounds like nit-picking, but when we finish, we should have a much deeper
understanding of fundamental truths and realities being taught by the
Rabbis, and not simply a few words of inspiration.)
When two people are sitting together, there must be some form of
communication between them. (Otherwise they aren't sitting TOGETHER.) This
communication must be either about matters that aren't truly significant, or
be words of Torah. (We will soon explain this extreme either/or dialectic.)
If their communication is about insignificant matters, then it is a session
of mockery ("moshav leitzim"). Mockery ("leitzanut") is ridicule and joking,
something which really has no substance. Therefore, when one sits and talks
of matters which lack significance and substance, it is considered a session
of mockery. It is true that the act of telling a friend things which aren't
actual words of Torah, but simply lack significance, doesn't render you a
scoffer ("leitz"). The definition of a "leitz" (scoffer) is one who is drawn
to ridicule, a very alluring activity, and simply telling stories that lack
significance isn't this gratifying kind of ridicule. But when two people
sit together and tell each other things which lack any significance, this
enjoyable activity has a special attraction. This attraction stems from the
same attraction which draws one towards the even more gratifying activity of
ridicule. So every session where two people are communicating in a way that
aren't words of Torah, is considered a session of scoffers (since the
foundation of scoffing is there, and it is just a matter of time until the
slippery slope is descended).
In addition, when people should be discussing words of Torah, which is
especially appropriate for two people who are together (as will soon be
explained) even innocuous conversation is a departure from the fitting
activity. This departure, relative to what they should be doing, renders
their interaction (relatively) a session of scoffers. ("Words of Torah" is
the paradigm of the most positive interaction between two people, while a
session of scoffers is the paradigm of the most negative interaction between
them.)
The proof to this lesson comes from the language of the text "and in a
session of scoffers..." ("uv'moshav leitzim") which was used in place of the
simpler (and therefore expected) language "and with scoffers he did not
sit." The first half of the verse uses a verb which relates to the activity
being described. "In the path of the wicked he did not stand" (implying
that he is walking on this path) warns about walking on a path leading to
sin. The walking is the beginning of the sin, as "walking" implies movement
leading towards a goal, the goal in this case being sin. Since the sinner is
walking on the path in order to sin, one is warned against standing on such
a path which leads one to sin. This structure makes the language "and in a
session of scoffers he did not SIT" incongruent. The verb of sitting is not
related to the activity of scoffing, so why was it used? This leads to our
understanding, that when two people are sitting together, the lack of words
of Torah being exchanged between them renders it a session of mockery, with
the sitting together playing a crucial role in defining the nature of their
interaction, as we have explained.
(We need to provide some elaboration on what appears to be a quite polarized
contrast in defining conversations as either being "words of Torah" or being
"scoffing." This will also give us insight into the strange urge people
have to gossip and have "bull sessions," something that, on the surface
doesn't seem to hold the same allure as other lusts and physical
enjoyments.)
The class is taught by Rabbi Shaya Karlinsky,Dean of Darche Noam Institutions, YeshivatDarche Noam/Shapell's and Midreshet Rachel for Women.