G-d told Moshe, "Send men to spy out the land of Canaan which I will
give to the Children of Israel." (Bamidbar 13:1-2)
Every year when we reach this parshah, I feel as if we have just reached
the border of Eretz Yisroel after being in Egypt for 210 years and after
having wandered in the desert for 40 years. After coming to appreciate
somewhat what Eretz Yisroel is supposed to mean to the Jewish people, and
after seeing how many Jews don't care for the Land as much as they ought
to, if at all, it feels as if after 3,316 years we have returned back to
square one all over again.
This week's parshah is going to have a somewhat personal tone to it, since
I am going to base it on the story of someone I have come to know quite
well over the years: me.
On my first trip to Eretz Yisroel, I was 14 years old. It was 1974, one
year after the Yom Kippur War and my parents had taken me on this trip as
a post-Bar Mitzvah present. Needless to say, I did NOT enjoy the trip at
all. It was an adult, group trip, planned to show support for Israel, and
the country was still licking its wounds. I did not enjoy the food or the
accommodations, and having to visit the wounded in the hospitals was an
unexpected and emotionally difficult experience for a fun-loving teenager.
Overall, the trip was a rude awakening from my artificially Jewish western
world and upbringing.
But I was not religious then, and becoming less so by the year. I had no
UJA affiliation, and Zionism never really impressed me. Indeed, the only
reason why I returned to Israel six years later was because I had decided
to travel to Europe and was told that travel in Israel was cheap. It was
my proverbial European tour that all my friends seemed to be taking those
Nevertheless, I ended up in Israel first. I traveled around a bit, and
eventually found my way to the Old City and the famous Western Wall. The
country had changed dramatically since I had last been there, but it still
wasn't North America by any stretch of the imagination. Interestingly, I
had come to like falafel since my previous trip, and the accommodations
seemed to have improved since I was 14.
Once at the Wall, I sat opposite it on the hill on the other side of the
Western Wall Plaza, and tried to feel something for the historical site
that seemed to move so many others. Nothing. I wanted to feel something,
but felt nothing, and the harder I tried the more frustrating it
became. "What can a person feel for a bunch of stones, no matter how old
they are?" I wondered to myself as I moved on.
Yet, I felt something, especially in Jerusalem, and it was somewhat
unnerving. I wasn't sure what it was at the time that I felt it, but it
irked me. It was some kind of intensity, but not one that I was
comfortable feeling. It touched me inside, and made me feel, for a lack of
a better description, more Jewish than I cared to feel at the time. It
made me feel like running away, which I did. Within days I boarded an
Olympus Airlines jet for Greece and the rest of my trip.
What I ran away from, I wasn't quite sure. All I knew was that as the
Olympus Air jet left Israeli soil and quickly swung West, something inside
me knew that I would be back again. It was very confusing. While there, I
couldn't wait to leave. Having left Israel, I seemed to be anxious to
return sometime soon.
And I had been right; one year later I was boarding an El Al flight back
to Israel. However, what I could NEVER have known at the time was that I
would be returning as a shomer mitzvoth Jew on my way to a yeshivah, of
all places, to learn for a year. The transformation I had undergone in one
year was tremendous.
I was apprehensive at first to be returning to a country I had yet to
really enjoy, a place I had no relatives to run to when feeling lonely and
cut off. I had returned because I realized there was no place to advance
as quickly in my Torah studies as I needed to. A yeshivah for Ba'alei
Teshuvah in Jerusalem seemed to be the only reasonable and best solution
at the time.
However, this time everything went differently. From the beginning of my
arrival, I was happy to be in Israel and I was surprised at how much at
home I really felt. Much had changed and advanced since my first trip at
the age of 14, but not much had changed since the previous year that I had
fled the country in haste for the shores of Corfu. Being among like-minded
boys from Canada and the States in yeshivah certainly helped my transition
from the North-West to the Middle-East, but it wasn't the basis of a new
relationship that began immediately between me and the Holy Land, one that
makes me feel pain and like a fish out of water when I HAVE to leave her
You will arise and show Tzion mercy, for the time to favor her, for the
appointed time will have come. For your servants have cherished her stones
and favor her dust. (Tehillim 102:14-15)
This morning, as I left my home for the third time, I once again set my
eyes on the beautiful Judean Hills that are opposite my front gate. Their
shape is perfect, their green grass enticing, and the way they roll makes
you want to run all over them with abandon. The small settlement across
the way with its white houses with red tile roofs look so placid and
stately, and the rows of plants and trees look geometrically integrated
with the natural landscape. There is something very mystical about the
We were late and rushing, my wife to her office and me to mine, but I
could not help but stop and gape and say, "Beautiful, amazingly
beautiful." I praised G-d for it, and tried hard to absorb as much of it
with as many senses as I could at one time, but fell far short. The only
consolation was that it would still be there later on that day when I come
home, G-d willing. Indeed, it was there at my office too once I booted up
my Mac and the background screen came to life with the very same scene,
albeit at sunset.
They say there is nothing worse than a reformed sinner and I am proof of
that. I went from hating the land to cherishing her stones and favoring
her dust, and spending a lot of time and money to convince others to do
the same. Indeed, I seem to confuse many people. Those who read what I
write are surprised to see my black hat and "Charedi" look. Those who see
me as being Charedi are shocked and uncomfortable by my love of the land
with my emphasis on aliyah at this time in history. Sometimes I seem to
No matter what I set out to speak or write about in the beginning, somehow
it always comes back to her, the Land, our inheritance from Avraham,
Yitzchak, and Ya'akov. Some 20 years later since I first came back for my
one year of learning, and stayed, my love for this land has only become
Upon returning to Israel for that first year of Torah learning, the
negative intensity I had felt the previous year was replaced with a new
sense of calm. Somehow, in the process of discovering that Torah was not
the work of men, and that Torah Judaism was not some archaic form of
illogical worship, but was in fact Divinely-originated and relevant, and
also my 3300-year old heritage, a spiritual and emotional dam opened up
within me. The resistance had ended. The spiritual shoe had come to fit
and wearing it had become a pleasure.
I remember how, when I first attended yeshivah, I had difficulty using my
Hebrew name. For many Ba'alei Teshuvah, the Western name is often one of
the last things to go. However, I was in Israel and at yeshivah, and I was
being taught Talmud by a rabbi who could easily have been teaching at the
famous Mir Yeshivah in Meah Shearim, and who came from an illustrious
Torah family. He would clearly be able to refer to me by my "other name"
for only so long before insisting that I answer instead to my Hebrew one.
Within months, it was the most natural name to use, and as I came to
identify more with it, I became less comfortable with my Western name.
By now, the Kotel experience was just that, a real experience. In the year
that I had been learning it ceased to be a relic from someone else's dead
past and had become a living history book, a spiritual link that joined
both a past and a future that I was very much a part of. I was learning to
feel its pain and its aspirations, its disappointments and its hopes. At
one point I thought that the golden dome above was a beautiful ornament
for the holy site; now I knew that it was an occupier of Temple property,
and a reminder that we must still work for and passionately await the
"You can take the boy out of the country, but you can't take the country
out of the boy," they say. But, how do you put the country into the boy if
it was never there in the first place? I have wondered on many occasions
how I came to love Eretz Yisroel so deeply, how my soul became so attached
to its soul, given who I once was and from where I first came. And, more
recently, I have wondered why this doesn't happen for all Jews, especially
those who have come to Eretz Yisroel for a period of time. There is one
thing that breaks my heart more than a Jew who makes yeridah (the opposite
of aliyah), and that is one who does it with relief and joy.
I am G-d your G-d Who took you out of Egypt to give you the Land of
Canaan to be your G-d. (Vayikra 25:38)
Any Torah-believing, G-d-fearing Jew should need no more than this posuk
to straighten out his or her heart. Interpret it, twist it, ignore it, do
whatever you want with this posuk, but know that the Talmud understands it
only one way:
The rabbis taught: A Jew should live in Eretz Yisroel, even in a city in
which the majority of the inhabitants are idol worshippers than in the
Diaspora even in a city in which the majority of the inhabitants are
Jewish. For, one who lives in Eretz Yisroel is one who has a G-d, and one
who lives in the Diaspora is like one who does not have a G-d, as it says,
I am G-d your G-d Who took you out of Egypt to give you the Land of Canaan
to be your G-d. (Vayikra 25:38). (Kesuvos 111a)
And, the Talmud continues:
This tells you that one who lives in the Diaspora is like one who worships
idols, as Dovid said,
". . . For they have driven me away this day from attaching myself to the
heritage of G-d to say, 'Go worship the gods of others!' " (I Shmuel
Not bad for rabbis who lived in Babylonia around the year 500 CE. But, the
Tannaim, the authors of the Mishnah (10-200 CE), were followed by the
Amoraim who compiled the Talmud (200-590 CE), who were then followed by
the Gaonim (589-1038 CE). This period, in turn was followed by the
Rishonim, to which belonged the likes of Rashi, the Rambam, the Ramban,
and Tosfos, and the First Crusade (1095-1100 CE). Thus, Rabbeinu Chaim
We are not accustomed at this time [to live in Eretz Yisroel] because of
the danger along the way, and Rabbeinu Chaim says that at this time there
is no mitzvah to live in Eretz Yisroel because there are many mitzvos and
punishments related to the land, and we are not careful enough in
performing them. (Tosfos, Kesuvos 110b, q.v. "He says, 'Let's go up")
Any student of world history, and particularly of Jewish history at that
time, knows exactly what Rabbeinu Chaim is talking about. There have not
been a lot of periods of world history during which it has been safe to be
a Jew, but the time of the Crusades was one of the worst. It was a time of
either forced conversion to Christianity or of torturous death for Jews.
And, at that time the Land of Israel was a jewel on the crown of any
Christian conqueror. It certainly was NOT a time to encourage aliyah to
The question is, what would Rabbeinu Chaim have said today if he were
alive at this late and remarkable stage of history?
The Vilna Gaon answered that question himself and for his students. He
tried to make aliyah under adverse conditions, and greatly encouraged his
most loyal students to do so after he was forced to turn around and return
to Vilna before reaching his cherished goal of Eretz Yisroel. Many others
have pondered the same question, and those against making aliyah don't
want to hear their conclusions.
And, regarding Tosfos' second point about the many mitzvos dependent on
Eretz Yisroel and their related punishments, there are a few points.
First, apparently not everyone holds this point of view, including all of
the Gedolim of Eretz Yisroel over the last century who encouraged
religious aliyah. The religious community in Eretz Yisroel is living
testimony to the fact that it is certainly possible to keep the mitzvos of
Eretz Yisroel, many of which are rabbinical in origin until the Temple
Second, in this day and age when Torah education is as simple as the press
of a button, it could be that Rabbeinu Chaim would say just the opposite.
Third, the Talmud states that accidental sins are automatically atoned for
in Eretz Yisroel (Kesuvos 111a), many of which are only rabbinical in
origin, compared with the sin of idol worship of living in the Diaspora,
which is the most severe sin in the Torah, and for which the Diaspora does
NOT automatically atone, whether performed purposely or accidentally.
However, I did not bring all of this down to put anyone on the defensive,
or to prove that aliyah is the right thing for a Jew at this time, because
it is not necessarily right for most Jews today. I am working on the
answer to the question I asked above: How does one come to automatically
love Eretz Yisroel, as if he or she was born there, lived there, and loved
it all of his or her natural life? The answer, like always, is in the
Three wonderful gifts were given by The Holy One, Blessed is He, to the
Jewish people, and all of them were given through hardship. They are
Torah, Eretz Yisroel, and The World-to-Come. (Brochos 5a)
Sounds simple enough, doesn't it? Yet, the spies missed the point, and in
spite of the fact that we have extended their desert wandering by
thousands of years, we also still don't get it. Is it one of those ideas
that is TOO simple?
For your servants have cherished her stones and favor her dust.
How many people ever get engaged on a subway? That it has been done, I'm
sure of it. But it is certainly not the preferred place for such a special
moment for the average person for whom special does not necessarily mean
unusual or strange.
Why not? Atmosphere. It is the nature of the human being and the world in
which we find ourselves that WHERE we do something has a lot to say about
WHAT we do. Therefore, a man is more likely to take his future bride out
for a nice supper in a fancy restaurant, or do something equally special
when proposing to his wife-to-be, than to ask for her hand in marriage on
the five o'clock express from the city.
But WHY does it make a difference? Because, the relationship demands it.
Relationship means that I care, and what I do and where I do it expresses
that care, and the extent to which I care. The more special the moment,
the greater the need for an expression of care. And specialness means
doing that which is not run-of-the-mill, that which is not typical and
It also works two ways. Not only must the giver choose a special
environment, but it must be that the receiver requires the special
environment as well. For, imagine how a man would feel if his future
finance told him, "Hey, why don't you just give me the ring" while they
are grocery shopping, or "mail it to me?"
"Huh? Are we talking about the same thing? I want to give you an
engagement ring and you're talking like I'm buying you a can of soda!"
And, of course, the ring is only a symbol of what he is really giving her:
a life commitment to try and make her happy, just as her acceptance means
that she will try and contribute to the perfection of the relationship
too. In other words, what he is really saying is:
"Huh? Are we talking about the same thing? I want to give you my heart and
life, and you are talking like I'm buying you a can of soda? Is that what
our relationship means to you?"
And yet the spies told G-d:
"That's okay G-d, we'll take Your Torah and live it right here in the
desert. We don't NEED to go into Eretz Yisroel for Torah. We're happy to
do it right here, in the wilderness."
And G-d's reaction:
Like the number of days that you spied out the Land, forty days, a day for
a year, you shall bear your sins forty years and you will understand
straying from Me. (Bamidbar 14:34)
What! Did they abandon Torah? Did they stop believing in G-d? No, they
only rejected Eretz Yisroel, and for this G-d answered them thusly:
"Torah? Here? In the desert? My Holy of Holies in a non-holy environment?
My symbol of My love and care for you in a place that represents anything
but that? Apparently I value My gift and love for you far more than you
do! I took you out of Egypt and gave you Torah in order to bring you to
Eretz Yisroel, so that I COULD BE YOUR G-D! If you're happy and content
living Torah outside of the Land, then it is not Torah you are rejecting,
but our relationship."
And, that is true for any generation at any time, whether the roads are
safe or whether they are not, whether you are afraid of the extra mitzvos
tied to the Land or not. For, Eretz Yisroel is far more than a land. It is
an atmosphere, a spiritual reality that makes the giving and keeping of
Torah special. It is a place, the Talmud says in so many places, that is
so special to G-d, a place He personally monitors and takes care of.
At the age of 14, the LAST thing I was looking for was a relationship with
G-d. Quite the contrary! If anything, G-d and Torah hampered my lifestyle
at that time, and I hated anything that even hinted to my connection to
And, when I returned six years later, it was no different, except for one
very important thing. I had matured somewhat, and had become more
philosophical over the year. I wondered about things like the purpose of
life, and had come to question the daily grind of mundane life. My mind
had opened to spirituality somewhat, but not my heart, because I was still
attached to my secular way of doing things.
Within the year, I had gone from thinking I was doing G-d a favor by
learning His Torah, to realizing that it was a Heavenly gift to make me a
better person, and eventually a better husband and father, son, etc. After
a few more years of learning, particularly after learning the REST of the
Talmud Bavli, and then seeing a little of what Kabbalah has to say about
life in this world and in Eretz Yisroel, I had finally come to see what a
phenomenal gift both were, and how vital Torah and Eretz Yisroel were to a
close and warm relationship with G-d.
In short, the Talmud means G-d gave us the vehicle to build a relationship
with him Torah, the place to actualize that relationship Eretz Yisroel,
and the place to enjoy it forever the World-to-Come. In short, I love
Eretz Yisroel because I love Torah and G-d, and the three just seem to go
together so naturally. And thus the posuk says:
You will arise and show Tzion mercy, for the time to favor her, for the
appointed time will have come. For your servants have cherished her stones
and favor her dust. (Tehillim 102:14-15)
It is talking about the Final Redemption, and it is revealing that it is
dependent upon our cherishing the stones of Eretz Yisroel, and favoring
her dust. The Midrash already indicates that the vast majority of Jews
will NOT make aliyah until after Moshiach comes. But the posuk, the
Talmud, and so many commentaries emphasize one that must be consistent
among ALL Jews in advance of his arrival, indeed even to trigger it: We
must cherish her stones and favor her dust.
If we don't, others will, and we are seeing the consequences of THAT right