Knowing Why and When To Say When
by Rabbi Yehudah Prero
Purim, the holiday on which we celebrate the salvation of the Jewish people
from the hands of the evil Haman, this year begins at sunset, March 1, 1999.
(See I: 66-77 for additional information.)
The commandment to drink on Purim (discussed in the last post, IV:19) contains
an odd measure for when to say when: "Until he cannot tell the difference
between cursed be Haman' and blessed be Mordechai'." The Vilna Gaon explains
this to mean "until one can no longer tell the difference between the
vengeance taken out on Haman and the rise in fortune of Mordechai." This
standard of measure is clearly unique. The explanation of the Vilna Gaon adds
to the uniqueness of this quantity. This amount can better be understood when
one studies a concept that the Gaon wrote about. In Psalms (92:5) we find the
following: "For you, Lord, have gladdened me with Your deeds; I sing glad
songs at the works of your hands." The Gaon explains that the Zohar writes
that the expression "deeds" to describe the actions of G-d is used for those
actions that are not clearly evident. A discerning eye is needed to see the
hand of G-d at work. The term "works" is used in conjunction with those
actions of G-d that are blatant, and clear to all who see them. When one sees
a "deed" of G-d, a hidden miracle, he rejoices. However, upon witnessing a
"work," an outright miracle, one breaks out in song and praise.
Punishments, downfalls, and failures tend to stand out in the public eye.
People take note when someone who had been so successful, so politically
savvy, so wealthy, fails miserably. The punishment, the "vengeance" of G-d
taken against those who dare to defy Him, is noticed when it occurs. However,
when the righteous live in tranquility, when the upright succeed, it rarely
makes the headlines. Those who understand how G-d works recognize that in such
situations, the success is G-d's way of rewarding those who listen to Him.
However, the reward is often not appreciated for what it truly is: the hand of
G-d in action.
The truth of the matter is that on Purim, we should rejoice more on the
downfall of Haman than on the rise of Mordechai. Because downfalls are readily
recognized and make people take notice, when one occurs, people more readily
acknowledge the hand of G-d. When we celebrate the salvation resulting from
the downfall of Haman, we celebrate because we acknowledge the "works" of G-d.
G-d's hand is revealed, and we exalt in the sanctification of His name in the
world. However, the rise of Mordechai appeared to be in the realm of being in
the right place at the right time. While those who appreciate G-d's "deeds"
realize that Mordechai achieved his success because of G-d, most do not
appreciate that it was a miracle, just as Haman's downfall was. Haman's
decline resulted in a greater recognition of the existence and power of G-d
than Mordechai's rise, and therefore it is to be celebrated at a higher level.
If a person does indeed celebrate, by feasting and drinking, keeping these two
events in their proper perspective, they are feasting properly, "for the sake
of heaven." However, as soon as one begins to celebrate Mordechai's success
more than Haman's decline, they have reached a point where they have lost the
proper perspective. This rejoicing can no longer be categorized as being
solely for the sake of heaven.
For this reason, the Vilna Gaon tells us that we should drink only until the
point where we won't be able to differentiate between the revenge exacted on
Haman and the rise of Mordechai. Once we have blurred events and their
corresponding significance, we are no longer acting in the true spirit of
Purim. We are told we should drink _until_ that point. We may drink as long as
we rejoice with the proper mindset. However, we cannot cross that line. We
should not reach the level where we can no longer differentiate between the
significance of the two occurrences. That is the instruction, the warning of
May we all celebrate Purim in the proper spirit (and with the proper spirits)!
A very happy Purim to all!
(Adapted from Sefer Kimu V' Kiblu)
R' Yehudah Prero
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