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Parshas Kedoshim begins with the words “Hashem spoke to Moshe saying: Speak to the entire assembly of the Children of Israel (kol adas bnei Yisrael) and say to them: ‘Kedoshim tihiyu (You shall be holy)’” [Vayikra 19:1-2]. Rashi points out that the uncommon inclusion of the phrase “the entire assembly of the Children of Israel” in the standard phrase “Speak to the Children of Israel…” teaches us that this mitzvah was specifically given in the presence of the entire assembly of Israel (b’hakhel).

There is a famous disagreement among the early commentaries as to exactly what is meant by the mitzvah “You shall be holy.” Rashi interprets the mitzvah as one of abstinence—“You shall be removed from arayos (forbidden sexual union) and from sin.” The word “Kadosh” literally means “separate.” When we say “Kadosh, Kadosh, Kadosh” about Hashem, we are emphasizing his separateness and uniqueness. Thus, the meaning of “You shall be Kedoshim” is “You shall be separated – from forbidden sins.”

The Ramban, in a famous argument with Rashi, says that “You shall be Kedoshim” has nothing to do with illicit sexual acts. Rather, Kedoshim tihiyu refers to perfectly permissible activities. The concept is “sanctify yourself by withdrawing from that which is permissible to you” (kadesh atzmecha b’mutar lach). That Ramban declares that without such self-limitation, a person can be a ‘naval b’rshus haTorah’ (a glutton ‘sanctioned’ by the Torah). The level of sanctity required by this pasuk is that which is achieved by a person who even somewhat restrains himself from those physical pleasures that the Torah permits.

The Chasam Sofer points out that whether we accept Rashi’s interpretation or the Ramban’s approach, the message of this mitzvah is one of abstinence. A person could perhaps erroneously come to the conclusion that the only way to achieve this level of sanctity would be to lock himself on the top of a mountain in a monastery. We might think that a person should ideally have nothing to do with people; that a person should not get married and should have nothing to do with the opposite gender at all. The Torah therefore makes clear that the “holiness” of a monk is not desirable. This mitzva was specifically delivered “b’hakhel”. Everyone was present—the men, the women, and the children.

A person must be a Kadosh (a holy person), but must be a Kadosh in the context of the congregation and the community. A person must get married and must raise children. A person must play with his kids and spend time with his family and be a part of the community. The Torah wants the holiness of complete human beings.

The Kotzker Rebbe used to stress “MEN of holiness you shall be to Me” (Shemos 22:30). “G-d is not looking for more angels.” The Torah was not given to angels (Brachos 25b). It was given to human beings who have wants and desires and are social animals. It is in that context that we are commanded to develop holiness.

Therefore, specifically Kedoshim tihiyu, of all mitzvos, was relayed in a mass public gathering, to emphasize that despite our obligation to achieve holiness through a certain degree of abstinence, it must be in the context of the community, our wives, our children, and our neighbors.

Transcribed by David Twersky; Jerusalem [email protected]

Technical Assistance by Dovid Hoffman; Baltimore, MD [email protected]

This week’s write-up is adapted from the hashkafa portion of Rabbi Yissochar Frand’s Commuter Chavrusah Series on the weekly Torah portion. A listing of the halachic portions for Parshas Kedoshim is provided below:

• # 009 – Prohibition Against Using a Razor
• # 052 – Prohibition Against Revenge
• # 095 – The Mezonos Roll: Does it Exist?
• # 143 – Inviting the Non-Observant to Your Shabbos Table
• # 190 – The Prohibition of Negiah
• # 236 – The Do’s & Don’ts of Giving Tochacha
• # 280 – “Lo Sa’amod Al Dam Re’echa”
• # 326 – Mipnei Seiva Takum: Honoring the Elderly
• # 370 – Deserts — Do They Require a Brocha?
• # 414 – Giving an Injection to One’s Father
• # 458 – Giving Tochacha: Private or Public?
• # 502 – Kissui HaDam
• # 546 – Treating Mitzvos with Respect
• # 590 – Sofaik Be’racha
• # 634 – The Prohibition of Hating Another Jew
• # 678 – Tochacha: Is Ignorance Bliss?
• # 722 – Stealing as a Practical Joke
• # 766 – Making Shiduchim Among Non-Observant
• # 810 – The Prohibition of Hating Another Jew
• # 854 – Tatoos: Totally Taboo?
• # 898 – Paying the Plumber and the Babysitter
• # 943 – Oy! They Shaved My Payos
• # 985 – Giving the Benefit of the Doubt – Always?
• #1029 – Must a Person Eat Bread in Order to Bentch?
• #1074 – Paying for Someone’s Expensive Medical Treatment
• #1116 – Eating Before Davening
• #1158 – “I Don’t Want You Spending Time With So-and-so”-Must a child listen?
• #1202 – A Bracha On Tums? On Listerine Strips? And Other Brachos Issues
• #1247 – The Kiruv Workers Dilemma: Inviting Non Shomer Shabbos for a Shabbos Meal
• #1289 – Performing Mitvos During the Holocaust
• #1290 – “I Don’t Carry In the Eruv, You Do” – Can You Carry My Tallis For Me?

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