If a man takes a vow to HASHEM or swears an oath to establish a
prohibition upon him-self, he should not desecrate his word; according to
whatever comes out of his mouth should he do! (Bamidbar 30:3)
Why are we told to “do”? Isn’t sufficient the warning about not
desecrating a word? How does one desecrate a word anyway? Isn’t a word-
just a word? How does it become profane for one and holy for another?
Question! Is possible for a person to do two Mitzvos at the same time?
Sure! Many Mitzvos may have overlapping domains. Here we have at least two
grand Mitzvah opportunities. One is commanded to not cheapen his words by
failing to fulfill an oath or a vow. Simultaneously there is potentially
another ubiquitous Mitzvah in the mix to have in mind.
The verse sates, “HASHEM will establish you for Him-self as a Holy
People, as He swore to you- if you observe the commandments of HASHEM your
G-d, and you go in His ways." (Devarim 28:9) Here the Mitzvah is
called “going in His ways”. Our sages define as follows, “Just as The Holy
One blessed is He is called “merciful” so you too should be merciful. Just
as The Holy One blessed is He is called “gracious” so you too should be
gracious. Just as The Holy One blessed is He is called “righteous” so you
so should be righteous. Just as The Holy One blessed is He is
called “holy” so you too should be holy.” Whatever we can know about the
traits of the Almighty through deed or description is another way to
emulate. In the liturgy of morning prayers we recite daily “Boruch
She’amar”, “Blessed is He Who spoke and the world came to be. Blessed is
He. Blessed is He Who makes the creation. Blessed is He Who says and does.
Blessed is He Who decrees and fulfills…” We can therefore say that just
as HASHEM fulfills His word so should we.
A woman was out clothes shopping with her children before a holiday when
she took notice of an orphaned child looking longingly into the store
window. Moved by the sight of the child’s plight she moved into action.
She told her children to stand aside for a short while and declared what
she what she was about to do. She approached the poor child and asked him
what he would like to buy. He looked at her with amazement and disbelief.
Then the kind woman proceeded to lead the child through the department
store picking out and matching him with a handsome wardrobe for Yom Tov.
The little child who had become used to disappointment in life was
astonished that his dreams were being fulfilled before his eyes. He asked
the woman, “Are you G-d?” The woman chuckled at his sweet naiveté and
quipped, “No, I’m one of His children!” To which the boy responded, “Oh, I
thought you must be related!”
Deeds are like money in the bank, while words are like checks. When the
currency has backing, when the words we utter have deeds to back them,
then those words can have supreme value. However, when even profound words
are bounced about like bad checks then they can become hollow and cheap.
A word’s real true is in our hands.