Honesty
By Rabbi Yisroel Belsky
Every day, we are confronted by basic questions of honesty. For example:
- If the motel operator says they accept three children in a room, can you bring a fourth?
- If someone blocks your driveway, are you liable for damage done while getting your car out?
- If you break an appliance, can you ask for a replacement under warranty?
- Is it OK if the librarian is a personal friend, and tells you to forget the fines you owe for overdue books?
Sometimes the answers appear obvious — sometimes the question is more subtle. And, sometimes, we forget basic principles “in the heat of the moment” and reason to ourselves that “everyone does it” or “it’s really ok.”
We need to have a better understanding of the issues involved, so we are more equipped to deal with when they arise. To help us in this endeaver, Rabbi Yisroel Belsky, Rosh Yeshiva of Torah Vodaas, has agreed to answer our questions.
This new class is intended as a workshop for personal growth. Each week, a question will be posted to the list for your thought and consideration. How would you answer? What would you do?
Then, the following week, we’ll see how Rabbi Belsky answers the question — and send out a question for the following week.
Subscribe to Honesty and receive this class via e-mail.
- Being An Employee
- Questions About Warranty
- Amusement Parks and Sick Days
- Phone Warranty and Bus Tickets
- Company Phone Directory
- Questions Regarding Libraries
- Running to a Phone
- Software Support
- Can a Son Lie to a Father…
- Calling Collect and Shareware
- Copying Textbooks
- Street Vendors and Jaywalking
- Chillul Hashem and Red Light on a Deserted Street
- Buying Software & Reminding Biller
- Having The Money For A Lawyer
- Browsing Magazines
- Joining AAA and White Lie to Daughter
- Interviewing Rabbis
- Reserving Food and Parking Lot Next Door
- Parking for a Minute by a Bank
- Scraping a Car That’s Parked Badly
- Stranger’s Cup
- Letting Someone Else Use Software
- Attending a Large Shiur Without Permission
- Reserving Domain Names on the Internet
- Doctor Forgiving Deductible
- Seller Revealing Flaws in a House
- Spending Car Repair Money
- Volunteering to Be a Witness
- Taking Off From Work
- Using a Car Service
- Car Mechanic’s Faulty Work
- Going to Another Hotel’s Entertainment
- Tipping
- Returning Apples
- Bus Drivers
- Borrowing a Trade-Show Pass
- Personal Business at Work During Lunch
- Suit for Dry Cleaner
- Music Store With Kids
- Using an IRA to Pay Debts
- Check-Out Line In Supermarket
- Saying You’re Part of a Daf Yomi
- Fixing A Library Book
- Truthfulness With A Shadchan
- Returning a Borrowed Book
- Copying a Tape In Case It Gets Lost
- Waiting in a Hotel Lobby
- Waiting for a Car Service
- Typing Daughter’s Report
- Couch From A Gemach
- Paying For A Mikveh
- Eating Kiddush Leftovers
- Driving Hard Bargains
- Contributing A Car To Charity
- Children in a Motel Room
- Phone That Fell Into the Bathtub
- Returning CDs After Hours
- Taking Time For Personal Matters At Work
- Billing Hours Worked
- Responsibility for Boss that Inflates Hours
- Overcharging for Accessories
- Using E-mail at Work for Non-Work Purposes
- Downloading and Copying Music
- Leaving Magnetic Stripe Parking Garage Ticket
- Taking Money Found on the Street
- When Other Students Use a Stolen Test
- Breaking Something in a Store
- Clothes Intended for Charity
- Copying One’s Own CD for Safekeeping
- Copying a CD Before Replacing It
- Making a Copy of a CD for Spouse
- Extra Food in a Restaurant
- Studying Using Old Tests
- Reimbursement for 99% of Travel Expenses
- Bringing Food into Arenas and Theaters
- Rabbi Looking for Another Position
- Returning a Defective Item Without a Receipt
- Talking To Or About Slacking Employees
- Paying For Water, Getting Lemonade
- Lawyer Billing For Non-Useful Time
- Returning Airport Luggage Carts
- Tracking Down An Un-Cashed Check